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Tag: self compassion

  • New Beginnings

    New Beginnings

    A poem contemplating that time between the end of one thing and the beginning of another and the rest and processing that needs to come in between. Read more

  • How to Be Human Enough To… process my diagnosis

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    A submission on the topic “Reveal” for the Creative Future competition. My first submission. Read more

  • How To Be Human Enough To… grieve (part 3)

    How To Be Human Enough To… grieve (part 3)
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    I want to talk about the deep sadness that I have over the gap between my potential and what I have actually been able to achieve. For me this disparity has been so difficult to come to terms with. Read more

  • How to be Human Enough To… grieve (Part 2)

    How to be Human Enough To… grieve (Part 2)

    The consequences of coming at things from a place of believing you are broken. I was recently on a course that talked about stress relief using a thing called transactional analysis. It really piqued my interest as it began with the assumption that everyone is coming from a while place of being ok and that… Read more

  • How to Be Human Enough to… make time your friend

    How to Be Human Enough to… make time your friend

    Living with ADHD impacts how I perceive and manage time, often feeling overwhelmed and stressed. Coping includes routines and habits for stability and reminders to aid memory. Importance is placed on self-regulation and care, as stress undermines all strategies. Emphasising the value of intentional living, the key is finding a personal sense of need rather… Read more

  • How To Be Human Enough To… thrive as an introvert

    How To Be Human Enough To… thrive as an introvert

    After forty years of people-pleasing and self-neglect, a coaching course sparked a person’s journey to self-discovery. An existential crisis highlighted their performative existence, but coaching and a global pandemic offered clarity and rejuvenation. Despite regressing into old patterns, opportunities and an ADHD diagnosis led to self-love, peace, and a true understanding of personal needs. Writing,… Read more

  • How To Be Human Enough To… endure the ADHD medication crisis

    How To Be Human Enough To… endure the ADHD medication crisis

    After a life-changing ADHD diagnosis, I’ve faced a five-month delay in receiving NHS treatment due to a global medication shortage. Nonetheless, I persist with honed routines, balancing a demanding job and family life, while dispensing with shame over my fluctuating capabilities. Currently, self-care and hope sustain me as I await medication availability, employing rest and… Read more